I cant believe Im blogging about Kindergarten already. Seriously, it feels like it was just yesterday that Eli was a baby in my tummy. Im amazed at how fast the boys are growing up before our eyes. Ive been very blessed to be a stay at home mommy all these years. Being a stay at home mom has so many positive rewards from it, but I have learned it does have its negatives as well. Neither of the boys had ever been left with adults they dont know. If we ever left them it was with a friend or family that they knew very well. So I gave in to the preschool idea because I worried about how Eli would react to me leaving him somewhere unfamiliar. If you remember, last year it took a good month to get Eli comfortable with me leaving him with his preschool class and teacher. He clung to my leg screaming! I would peal him off finger by finger, his teacher would take him, and Id run like the wind out the door and then wait to hear his cries stop before I left the building for the couple of hours of class time. It broke my heart, leaving my first child like that. This also was hard on Zach..."Eli's crying and sad mommy, lets go get him!". But within time, Eli learned that preschool was fun. It was fun having his own place that only he got to go, time away from his brother and the fights, to learn so much educationally, and to meet new friends outside of mommy and daddy's help. He grew up so much in that year, its amazing to look back on it now. Its also taught myself that I can trust other adults, and that school is a very safe place for me to let go of some of my paranoid overprotective mommy control. And its also taught Zach, that school is fun..so when his time comes I hope its easier for him than it was for ELi. And becuase of that experience, Kindergarten has been a TOTAL success! Beyond what I ever imagined it would have been. We had his school supplies purchase, backpack tagged with his name, and clothes layed out for the first day of school! He was pretty excited, to say the least. His teacher had given the kids goodie bags with fun meaningful things in it (a sticker to remind them they all stick together in class, a cotton ball to remind them that they only use soft words and hands with their friends, a candle to celebrate a year of learning, etc) So on his first morning, I made him pancakes eggs and sausage. I covered the pancakes with whip cream and sprinkles and put the candle in it. He covered his eyes as I brought it to the table and I had him open his eyes and told him to make a kindergarten wish. His eyes got all huge with excitement and I could tell he felt really special. His wish was "to be friends forever and ever and ever". (which I found out that night at dinner that he wasnt talking about his friends or school, he was talking about Mommy Daddy Zach and him. How special is that!?) I think the candle wish with breakfast is going to be our first day of school tradition forever with the boys. So his first day I drove him to school so that I could walk him into his class and take pictures and such, just like most of the other parents did as well. He was very happy to see that two of his friends, Brionna (who he was very good friends with) and Carla, from his preschool class, were now in his kindergarten class as well! He was very brave walking in to class, hung up his backpack, and found his seat with his name. When it was time for parents to leave I think he would have been fine had I just waved and left the room, but mommy went over and kissed him anyways. Zach and I went home and played and waited for brother to come home on the bus. I had gotten so many mixed reactions to school bus riding from friends who have kids in school, so I thought Id give the afternoon ride a chance since I knew that his teacher walked them to the bus from class and it was ONLY kindergarten kids on the bus. Not to mention that it is only 10 minutes from the time school lets out until he gets to our house (they drop him at our house and only if Im there to get him) which is almost faster than if I went to pick him up and had to wait in the pickup line. Felt pretty secure and safe of a plan to this protective mommy! So when the bus driver pulled up and waved and opened the door for Eli, as he walked passed me to go in the house says in this very big boy mature matter of factly way "mommy, you know how you drove me to school today in the morning? well I dont want you to do that anymore, I want to ride the bus to school AND home". Well then! I guess maybe he's ready for college, or his own place too?


Look at that handsome little boy! Here he is standing outside of his new classroom.

Sitting at his big boy desk, very proudly.

So then since he "requested" I not drive him to school anymore, we attempted the bus the next morning. I was a little nervous because there are all ages on the bus in the morning and I wasnt sure he had the focus skills just yet to pay attention and get off and go right into the elementry gym like he's supposed to..especially since his first day the kindergarten went to their class instead of the gym. So being my protective self, I quized him to death all morning about where to go and stranger danger. We talked about different scenerios with stranger danger, and Im so thankful for the safety camp lessons he got this summer. When I told him that if a stranger grabbed him and wouldnt let go, than he was to yell and that he was also to KICK and HIT them as hard as he could until they did let go. He looked at me and said "mommy its not nice to hit"...I assured him that it was VERY OK to hit a stranger trying to steal you and he got an evil little grin on his face about that. So watch out strangers, my son is ready to fight! haha Luckily there are 2 kids in our neighborhood that get on at his bus stop as well, so that made me feel a little more comfortable that he knew friends on the bus. I told him that this one day I would drive and meet him at school just to make sure he knew exactly where to go off of the bus, and I would take pictures but to NOT come to mommy, just go to the gym. So after he boarded the bus, Zach and I drove to school and waited for their bus to show up. As he got off of the bus he looked so proud of himself, smiling and waving to me. I took pictures of him walking in line to the gym from the bus. The cute little neighbor boy (who is in 2nd grade) looks at me and says "its ok Candy, Im taking care of him. I'll make sure he gets to the gym safe and knows what to do". How cute is that!? He felt my worry, and took over for me as Eli's little helper. That little boy doesnt realize it, but I later told his Dad that it made all the world of difference to me and has really made me feel more comfortable about sending Eli to school on the bus. So now Eli is a full time bus rider, morning and afternoon. He's doing so great. Hasnt shed one tear or shown any fear. He's making friends and learning so much already. We had an open house the other night, and I was amazed at how many friends came up to him to say hi already. Its so fun and so amazing watching him become his own person at this age. You could say Im a proud mommy! My only worry is his Daddy's genes. Its almost become a ritual, when he gets off the bus I have to tell him "do not kiss the window anymore on the bus!" Apparently all the kindergarten kids on his bus in the afternoon think that its hillarious when he kisses the window and smashes his face all over it. So when I tell him not to do it again and threaten about all the germs he's touching doing that, he responds with "but mommy, my friends think its funny!". One girl even came up to ME at the open house the other night and told me "I like Eli, he's funny on the bus". Great, my son is the bus clown...thanks to Daddys genes, because I was NEVER that outgoing and crazy as a kid.